Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Home sweet Home!!

MIL has been discharged rom hospital!! How fab is that?? More imprtantly, how fab is SHE??!!

Adj went to see her today and came back quite happy. He was soooo down last week and yesturday was a bad day for him :o(

MIL has a test later this week to check the status of the MRSA, she wants me to wait till she has the test before I go to see her. Cant wait to see her tho as it's been a few weeks.
She's getting on well and is progressing good. She has a carer to change the bandages and to help her wash etc.

The monster is still holding on to his lies!! Cant be a man even now. I just hope justice is done.

Saturday, September 15, 2007

Happines turns to sadness.....

...... and anxiety...... and sorrow...... and fear......

just found out that MIL has MRSA, what are we gonna do know? How is this gonna affect her, and Adj and even bubble.
What is the seriousness of her infecion? Is it treatable? all these questions..... no answers yet.

Adj was so sad when he collected me from my mummy's house. I just knew something was wrong, he was just so down looking. My mummy asked him how his visit went as he'd been to see MIL on her "home" visit..... he just made a so so face and action with his hands, Mummy and I just looked at each other, I told him to get Kylo but he said me or kali would have to carry him... that in itself seemed odd to us as he always carried him to the car, esp now i'm so achy.... He told me the news when we got in the car and told me he needed to wash etc. Because of the risks, and so he didnt want to be close to Kylo.
When we got home i just stayed in the car while they went inside and just cried..... why this? why??

How do we all bounce back from this?

Today I had youth meeting and was teaching the kids a song to sing on Sunday, it's by Kirk Franklin and it has the line "He'll never put more on me than I can bear"
was practicing it all afternoon in preperation for the meeting, going through the lyrics and arangement and the harmonies...... Now it seems like it was a pre comfort that I needed for now.

Sunday, September 9, 2007

MIL update!!

Arrrggggg!!! am soooooooo stoked!! Adj's grandma phoned with an update!! Mil got up and walked by herself, got in her chair by herelf and went to the bathroom by HERSELF!! how great is that?? How amazing is she??!!
The hosp is so pleased with her she will be going on a day visit "home" next week!!! - not to her home obviously but somewhere else(cant say where for security) to see how she gets on and if all goes well, she will be looking at a discharge date real soon!!!
I can hardly believe it, I had no expectation of her leaving hosp so soon! She had told adj that she wanted to be at work by Christmas and we were thinking he'd be in hosp still at christmas!!

Even tho I prayed for a miracle I cant quite fathom this at all!! How great is this?? God is good :O)

Monster has to apear in court this month. Police want MIL to do a video statement. Not too clued up on legal stuff so not sure if this date is just a hearing in order to see what the plea is, will find out from adj when he has a chat with liason offficer.


Got to see Bubble in a scan on Friday!!
Went to see if he/she was growing properly(i.e not too big) and if the position was ok... was breech at 30wks.
Growth is fine (so neeeerrrrr consulants!! just cos i'm a fatty dont mean my baby will be mega huge - my last 3 were "normal" so why cant this one be???)
And bubble is head down!! whoooo hoooo (must be why i can feel all this presure "down there")

Scanner lady was supa nice. She let Adj, jayz and kylo have a looksie. Adj had to go park the car and i had to go in, she'd finished the scan when they came and she told me to hop back on the bed and let them have a looksie. So nice of her.

SO pleased that bubble isnt breech anymore, scanner lady said babies can still turn from now till birth but hopefully bubble will stay put :o)